FIVE THINGS A WOMAN CAN DO TO IMPROVE HER RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE

FIVE THINGS A WOMAN CAN DO TO
IMPROVE HER MARRIAGE –
1. Instead of complaining, whining, or
raising your voice, speak softly with clear,
concise, respectful, and loving language.
How do you do that? Before you “react” stop
for however long you need in order to calm
yourself.

Benefit to you: You’ll get his attention, his
cooperation, and his respect.
Why it works: Men need clear, concise,
unemotional language to be able to hear
you. Otherwise, they shut it out completely.
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2. Look for ways that he makes you happy
and let him know . . . regularly.
Some examples might be: “It makes me
happy that you like solving problems for
me,” or, “You make me feel wonderful when
you tell me you love me,” or, “It makes me
happy that you help with the kids…and they
love it.”Letting him
know you’re happy makes him feel
successful. He needs that and you can give
it to him.
Benefit to you: He’ll start looking for more
ways to make you happy.
Why it works: If you’re not happy he feels
like a failure and men hate to fail.
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3. Appreciate him often, especially those
things
you
know he likes about himself, things he’s
proud of.
Examples could be: “I really appreciate what
a nice home you’ve been able to give us,
thank you so much,” or, “I love how strong
you are. or, “The
way you make love to me is so perfect,
mmmmmm.”
Benefit to you: He’ll fall in love each time
you do it and you’ll make him feel like a
hero.

4. Give him romantic kisses instead of
pecks. Long hello kisses tell him you’re glad
to see him, long good-bye kisses tell him
you can’t wait until he returns, long thank-
you kisses tell him you really appreciate
what he did for you, and “hey you, kiss me”
kisses tell him you want him.
Benefit to you: He’ll feel more connected to
you and look forward to being with you.
Why it works: Physical connection is the
only way most men know how to be
intimate and intimacy is what makes your
relationship special.
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5. Flirt with him.
Be playful, tease him, talk se xy once in a
while, gaze into his eyes with a “come here,
big boy” twinkle, offer se xy kisses and
physical touches.
That
means flirting, being playful, being se xy and
sensual, and remembering why you fell in
love in the first place.
Remember this, when the
se xual side of your relationship dies, you
become roommates . Make sure your s*x
life is
alive in your marriage. Counselor Okechukwu says;
Its very important.