WAYS TO MAKE A MAN FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU AND KEEP BEGGING YOU NOT TO LEAVE HIM

What do you do when you think you’ve found “the one”? If you want to make a guy fall in love with you, you must first learn how to make a guy want you. In fact, making a guy fall for you is all about being yourself and not trying to impress him too much. Contrary to what most people believe, men adore women who are confident and comfortable in their own skin, so if you want to reel a man in, then you have to be just that and more. Be a Better Version of Yourself: The first rule of dating and relationships is to be yourself. Who you are is already awesome and that’s why he’s into you. There’s no need for any drastic changes, but there’s no harm in making yourself even more awesome than you already are. Whether it’s changing your hairstyle, going to the gym, or learning and mastering a new skill, men won’t help but notice how much more confident, vibrant and full of life you are than you were when you first met, and we all know that’s one of a woman’s traits men find sexy. Constant change for the better also shows a man that you value yourself and your relationship enough to become a stable and supportive partner in life.

Be an Inspiration, Not a Distraction: It’s not too difficult for a woman to distract a guy who’s smitten with them. Unfortunately, this distraction can make him temporarily lose focus of the bigger picture, and when he realizes that he’s dropped the ball because of a woman, rest assured he’ll drop the woman so that he can get his life back. You don’t want that, do you? If you’ve seen the movie As Good As It Gets,you would be familiar with the famous line“You make me want to be a better man.” That’s exactly what you’re supposed to aim for. If you can inspire a man to better himself, then it won’t be long before he’s whispering the magic words “I love you” in your ears. Learn to Like His Friends: Friendship is sacred to men and the longer they’ve been friends with someone, the more loyal they become. If you start nit picking at the type of people he hangs out with, don’t assume that he’ll pick you over his friends because in all likelihood, that’s not going to happen. You have to remember that he has been friends with these people longer than he has known you and unless he’s already in a committed relationship with you (which he isn’t if you’re still trying to make him love you),you don’t really have a say on who his friends should be. The best way to deal with this problem is to learn to like his friends. If for some reason that’s absolutely not possible, then it’s best to give him the space he needs to hang out with his friends and trust that he won’t do anything stupid when he’s with them.

Make His Friends Like You: Since we’ve already touched on the topic of his friends, there’s another thing you need to know about them. Although a lot of you don’t want to have anything to do with your man’s friends, you must accept that they’re a part of his life and they usually have something to say about who their friend dates and who he falls in love with,and believe it or not, he’s more likely to listen to them than to trust his instincts. If his friends like you, then they’ll be more inclined to support him having a relationship with you, and if his friends support you then it’s easier for him to open up to you and let you into his heart. Besides, if they like you enough, they may even take your side if you and your man end up arguing about something. < Don’t Make Him Lose Interest In You: Men usually have a short attention span when it comes to dating and relationships. It can take a second to be smitten with you and it can also take a second for him to lose interest. It’s obvious to a guy when a girl he’s asking out is just playing hard to get, so there’s no use pretending. You should, however, make sure that you don’t lay all your cards on the table at once. This way, he’ll want to get to know you better and pretty soon, he’ll realize that he wants to be with you. Make Him Feel Important: You’re a s*xy, confident and independent woman and he knows that he’s lucky to be dating you. There’s no need to rub his face in it. You see, aside from his heart, you also need to take care of his ego. There’s no need to suddenly put on the damsel in distress act just so that he’ll feel needed. You can do this by allowing him to do little things for you. It could be as simple as asking for his opinion on a major decision you’re making or asking him to build or fix something up for you. It also won’t hurt to give him the spotlight every now and then. Whether they admit to it or not, men want to be appreciated, and showing him how much he means to you every now and then may just make him want to stick around.