Sometimes, we realize what
we’ve lost and are ready to be whatever we need to be to get it back. Of all of the reasons a man might reappear,this is the most rare. Sometimes, without us really realizing, a woman can carve out perfectly round a little space in our hearts and lives. We leave her, thinking she’ll be the only one who experiences any loss, but, really, we lose too.
Try as we may to fill that spot she left with the square pegs of
another woman or of other women, Well, s*x has some sort of crazy hold on humans and animals alike but if statistics
that say men think about s*x every 7 seconds are anything to go by, then people going back to their exes for s*x shouldn’t be much of a surprise. While it seems to hold truer for men to always think about s*x, this makes the possibility of men going back to their ex for s*x when horny higher than it is for the womenfolk (even though
this may not hold true in every situation). More so, getting an ex off one’s mind is a
hard call if you add the fact that you may once have had some scintillating sexual
make outs with them. We all know going back to your ex for anything at all
( including s*x) is a bad idea and as such, we bring to you : Reasons why men go
back to their exes for s*x and why it is an entirely bad idea for men and women to
do so.
YOU ARE FAMILIAR: The fact that you know them so well and
you have absolutely no reason whatsoever to impress them, figure out the things they like or go ballistic with their sexual fantasies makes it easier to have uncomplicated s*x with your ex. These things hold true for both of you as being with a familiar body you know in and out is appealing even though you have it at the back of your mind that it won’t last. Having s*x with your ex will surely not make you get over them, neither will it help you start a fresh relationship.
YOU ARE AVAILABLE:
Well, it’s obvious that the ex is always
available and if anyone is looking for a
quick lay, the ex is the first point of call. The ideal thing to do is to prevent
compromising situations such as spending private moments with them, having more drinks than you can take or answering their late night calls.
THEY WANT CLOSURE:
A couple of times, you’d hear them say,
“Just one last time, then I’ll be over you.” A Lot of girls in the ex category would
probably have heard this excuse time and time again. The simple truth is that it is very rare for s*x to make you realise that the two of you aren’t meant to be together or make you feel like it is “really over” as s*x is bound to bring the two of you closer. It’s never really over if you’re
having s*x, simply because…err, you’re
having s*x .
HE WANTS TO WIN YOU BACK:
Truth is a man may actually want to have
s*x with his ex because he wants her back. S*x releases a lot of powerful emotions which can be difficult to refuse. Hugging alone releases a lot of chemical reactions that elucidates bonding, talk more of naked se xual romps. Thus, his plan with having s*x with an ex could be to get back in the game. If you aren’t interested, stay away from s*x with the ex.
HE WANTS A FRIEND WITH BENEFITS:
Ready for more truth? The friends with
benefits conundrum never wanes. It is
difficult to have a casual se xual
relationship with your ex. The truth is
having a friends with benefits relationship
with your ex will only stop you from
moving on with your life as it may prevent
you from dating other people as you may
subconsciously feel you still have a
boyfriend even though he’s nothing like
what you want.
HE MISSES YOU:
This might sound so sweet, but it is
definitely not a good reason to jump in bed
with him. It is normal to miss someone
and it is part of the grieving and recovery
process of getting over an ex. If you end
up having s*x with them again, the process
begins all over again.
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