Thursday 21 April 2016
11:47:00
4 WAYS THAT SHOWS YOU'RE MADLY IN LOVE WITH HIM WITHOUT KNOWING
True love is the foundation of every good
relationship, but how do you know for sure you are in love? How to know that it is not a mere attraction,whether physical or emotional? Of course, both of
these elements are a part of what love is, but it is much more - when just seeing someone takes your breath away and scrambles your thoughts, that is love. You want to be sure about being in love, don't
you? Here are some of the telling signs that you are in love.
1. You want to spend your time with him
Spending time apart is not an option
This is the most obvious sign you have fallen for him. Spending time with someone, and not just regular
amount, like the time you spend with your coworkers or occasional gatherings with your friends; If you
think you can spend all of your time with someone,from the moment when you wake up early in the morning, grumpy and looking for your dose of caffeine to the moment when you come home from
classes or from work, worn out, if you think you can share all of these moments with someone and still be happy with him, you are in love. Sit and think - is the
person you are thinking about a person you can share all these moments with.
2. You worry about him Of course, obsessive worry is not healthy at all, but
it's a good sign if you consider his day and worry about some harm coming to him. Is he going to be fine going biking on such a long track? How's he
doing with the exam he is taking at the moment? Will he enjoy the book you loaned him? Thinking of someone is one of the clear signs of attraction, our
loved ones are never too far from our thoughts.
3. Physical response: Do you blush when you are in his presence or when
you think about him? Do you get the butterflies if you have to communicate casually with him? Your mind already knows if you love someone or not, and it's sending the signs that you are in love to you, urging you to act on it. Physical attraction is a big part of a
relationship, not the most important one, of course,but you are not likely to fall in love with someone you don't find physically attractive. Is he your type? You
should know the characteristics you enjoy seeing in a man by now, if you like them tall, short, blue eyed,tanned or pale. A guy that fits your personal fantasy is one you're more likely to fall in love with.
4. Pangs of jealousy. He makes you feel jealous without even having to try
Do you get annoyed if he mentions an ex or another friend he spent time with? Is it annoying that he spends time on things that don't directly involve you?
Being jealous is a mark of caring about someone enough to want to usurp his free time - keep that under control, as acting on it too brazenly is not a
good thing, he deserves his free time to spend with their friends, but you can tell that you like someone if
you want him to notice others much less than they notice you.
Does he make you feel good about yourself - This is one of the most important things you have to consider when you question your love about
someone. You can be attracted to someone, love him and even spend a lot of time with him, but if he doesn't make you feel good in return, that is not love.
At least not a form of love you should be striving towards - love is a partnership where both partners try to make each other feel special, a game where
both players are winners and are there for each other, through good or bad. Of course, nobody expects two people to perfectly match their hobbies,their views on life, religion, freedoms and even love
itself, but as long as these views don't clash directly,or as long as there is a compromise to be found where both sides almost get what they want, than
that can be called love. If your partner has a positive effect on your self-confidence, and you can do the
same for him without having to change yourself or him too much, then you are on the road of love, as love is a journey, not a destination, and it's only worth taking with someone who will make your days special.
All of these signs you're in love should clear up any confusions you have about you being with someone. You should appreciate the love you have, and know
that it is not a constant, eternal thing. People change with time, and love is a creation of people - thus, love
changes with time. It is up to you to nourish your love and have it last for as long as it can, as it is one of the best feelings in the world, and we all strive to
achieve it.
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