3 THINGS THAT LEAD TO DOUBLE DATING OR CHEATING,ALMOST EVERYBODY IS GUITY OF NUMBER 3

You may be married or in a love relationship and everything is working just fine. One fine day you meet an old crush, friend or a lover and are overwhelmed with nostalgia. You begin by sending text messages, making phone calls and exchanging emails in the name of friendship and enjoy it too. It brings a fresh feeling to your life that is run out of romance. Before you realise you fall into another relationship that can turn your world topsy turvy.

You have met someone new and the chemistry between you two sends out sparks. You love spending time with this person and would give up almost anything for another meeting or date . You start neglecting your present partner, do not have time for them and suddenly start losing interest. The friendship with the significant other is blossoming in to a full blown affair.

In your heart you know it is wrong but do not accept it. You start find faults with your present relationship to justify your affair. You get into an extra marital affair and soon you are cheating on your partner. Controlling your feelings seems impossible. Although you may feel guilty you continue your affair.

HOW YOU CAN STOP CHEATING Avoid constant messaging and phone calls. Remember you have a partner who loves you. Avoid thinking what it could be and what you do not have. Control your urge to meet up for just one last time, even if it is to end. Call up your ‘other’ or email that you cannot be in the relationship. Remember it is not over until it is over. Talk to your husband or wife about what you expect from your relationship. Avoid waiting for the right moment to stop cheating Just do it. Imagine what will be the consequences if you are found out. Concentrate towards making your present relationship better Meet long lost friends or new ones along with your girlfriend or boyfriend. Count your blessings and you will see that life has treated you well. Avoid criticising and comparing your partner, Avoid comparing your situation with the movies. You are for real Show respect towards your partner’s trust and emotions. Spend more time with your partner. Do special things Avoid being negative about your relationship or married life,Share with your partner if you are not happy about something. It works Consult a therapist or relationship expert if everything else fails