Have you ever wondered whether somebody you just met loves you or hates you? Have you noticed that some people are naturally kind and exude good vibes, while others give you the side eye straight away? When that happens, it is usually very easy to tell if the person likes you or wants you gone, but it often happens that things are not so obvious.
Fortunately, there are some small details that usually give people’s thoughts away, even if they are trying really hard to conceal how they really feel about you: all you have to do is to pay attention to these signs and to read them correctly. Here are some of the most notable signs that can help you figure out if people love you or hate you:
In some cases, if someone feels a strong dislike for you, they make it clear, but often society might force them to try to hide it. Hate is a complicated emotion, and very often someone will hate it when you do something, but doesn't hate you .
Pay attention to their eyes. A lot of things that are considered too rude to be said are often communicated using eyes. In fact, some of our emotions are written in the size of our pupils, something humans can't control. If someone is frustrated by having to talk to you, you can often find out by watching their eyes.
Look for trends. If someone has only met you once, or doesn’t usually act like they don’t like you, it’s probably nothing. Everyone has bad days, and bad days can make people grumpy and act mean. In order to be sure someone hates you, you should pay attention to how they behave over the long run rather than focusing on one or two individual events.
Pay Attention To The Tone Of Their Voice. You will be amazed to see that you can tell a lot more about a person (and about the way they feel towards you) by simply paying attention to the tone of their voice, than to the things they are actually saying. This does not mean that you have to ignore what they are saying – it just means that you need to focus on the “whole package”.
A person’s voice tone can make or break them, and it can easily give away their hidden intentions. The tone of somebody’s voice can be a very good indicator of somebody’s feelings, and while it would be very easy for people to lie to one another, it is a lot more difficult to conceal their true intentions in the tone of their voices. For instance, you can easily tell if somebody hates you or if they feel bored, if they use a flat tone. On the other hand, vocal inflections (as opposed to speaking in monotone) have the opposite effect, and it means that the other one is really keep on the conversation.
There will always be people who will dislike you, no matter what you do. If you have tried everything possible to make up, then it's probably time to let it be and move on with your life.
People who cause you stress aren't worth spending time on. Whether they hate you or not, if you can't communicate with them in a way that's acceptable to both of you, it will serve your best interests to forgive and forget.
Don't create drama around whether or not someone hates you, or even create drama about the fact that someone hates you. The other people in your community, whether it's your friends, your family, or your coworkers will thank you to keep drama to a minimum.
If you can't come to an agreement with someone, then avoiding them is probably the best option. Don't pester them by trying to figure out whether they hate you. Even trying to make it better can be adding to the problem if you aren't getting anywhere with it.
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