5 FACTORS TO CONSIDER BEFORE ACCEPTING A PROPOSAL OR BEFORE PROPOSING TO SOMEONE

Some basic factors to consider before accepting
a proposal or before proposing:

1. God Is he/she a born again christian? Are the things
of God so paramount in his/her heart? Is there
fear and love of God in his/her heart? If he/she
does not love God, such person cannot love you
because God is love.
Sisters, it is the fear of God that keeps a mate
faithful. Beauty will not! Sex will not! Beauty or
sex cannot guarantee faithfulness. Your beauty
does not make another woman ugly neither do
your so called bed styles makes another
woman ‘styleness’.
Same goes to the men, your appearance,
accent and so on may get her attention; but
only God in you will get her heart for you! (As
long as you’re and she is His child.) Your
‘niceup’ won’t make another man ‘nicedown’.
God is the real deal believe it or not!


2. Who is he/she?
You need to know something about this person,
that is why friendship is important because it is
when you’re friends that you can know some
things about him/her.
Check out for the level of maturity, how does
he/she respond to quarrel, his/her relationship
with the parent and others, intellectual
compatibility, how does he/she handle
finances.
If you are a spender, then he/she must be a
planner. Make sure you both do not have the
same weakness, he/she should be able to make
up for your weakness.

3. Communication skills Is he/she the type that don’t get in touch with
you well? What is his/her opinion about
communication? Is he/she comfortable around
you to discuss his/her fears, worries, past and
future ambitions.
Listen, communication is an important
ingredient in any relationship that needs to be
taken so serious. 4. Love You need to be in love, I really mean you have
to be in love genuinely, not compelled or
coarse into loving the person but a real love.
Do not accept a proposal out of pity, don’t beg
to be in a relationship because if you beg him/
her in, you will have to beg him/her to stay
with you forever.
Love is not a maybe thing, you know it if you’re
in love. Do you love this person well, look into
the nearest 10/15 years if Christ tarry, will you
still be loving this same person like now?
Are you loving out of desperation? Don’t go
into relationship desperate, take time to grow
in love, do not be in a hurry.
Once you ‘fall in love’ there is no way you can
fall out of love because it will stay in your
mind, heart and soul for the rest of your life,
so think well before you say or stay in love.
There is more to love than the feeling, it is a
decision! A decision to be with that person
good or bad and for the rest of your life.

5. Are you ready? You must understand that relationship is not
only about receiving, it is also about giving.
Ladies, what do you have to offer the man, it
not your beauty that will pour into your
children, it is what you have inside, when you
have something to offer, to make a difference
in the man’s life, then, he is actually favoured
from the Lord.
Men, are you man enough? I’m talking about
maturity now not your six packs chest, can you
handle her past?
A true relationship is having someone who
accepts your past, supports your present, loves
you and encourages your future. Are you ready
for the responsibilities ahead? (Not only
financially)
Marriage is not a competition, take your time,
be in love, groom your relationship, nurse your
ambitions, because FOREVER is pretty too long
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