Tuesday 20 September 2016

8 Reasons why relationship don`t last this days,You need to read number 1, 4 and 5 weller,CLICK TO READ

Relationships don't last anymore because people are not willing to sacrifice a part of themselves for someone else, and they don't want to put in the work that is necessary to have a life long friend, lover and companion.


I think couples need to realize that people change over time. The person you married is not going to be the same person five years later. Peoples thoughts, ideals, goals, and appearances change over time, and there are some of us who cannot accept those changes in their mates. They feel that this is not the person I fell in love with. This may be true, but in time you could learn to understand and come to fall in love all over again with the new person you are living with. Relationships go through stages because life throws you so many curves, and those curves cause people to change their perception of life and relationships. Sometimes you can't control the changes that take place. In my case, I had a full hysterectomy at a very young age, and it not only affected me physically, but emotionally as well. A different person emerged from that operating room. So sometimes there are reasons beyond your mate's control that creates that change. In any case, you still have to remember that you made a commitment to that other person, and you owe it to them to work on making your relationship work.


1. TECHNOLOGY HAS MADE IT EASY TO CHEAT
One reason why relationships fail to last these days is because technology has made it easier to cheat. By just swiping on Tinder, you get connected to thousands of new people around your city you could have a relationship with instantly.
2. WE ARE TOO BUSY FOR OUR RELATIONSHIP
The modern day man and woman wants the good things of life. They devote all their time and energy chasing the dream and forget to love. These days people don’t have the patience to deal with all that comes with being in a relationship. They are just too busy that they forget to have time for love.
3. WE WANT THE PERFECT PARTNER EVEN WHEN WE AREN’T PERFECT OURSELVES
The modern man and woman wants a partner without flaws. We are always in a hurry to leave a relationship if we find someone we think is better and the cycle keeps going on. No one is patient anymore with their partner. No one is patient enough to bring out the best in their partner. We all want a perfect partner even when we aren’t perfect ourselves.


4. S*X IS SO EASY TO FIND
These days, s*x is so easy to find and this is affecting relationships. A s*x with a new guy or girl is always a phone call away. It’s easy to have s*x without even being in a relationship with that person. This generation now considers good s*x as a quality a partner should have so they go around having random s*x as they seek for the partner who can satisfy them better.
5. NO ONE IS READY TO BE A FOOL FOR LOVE
Relationships don’t last these days because this generation doesn’t understand what it means to love someone madly. We are just too realistic for our own good and we don’t love madly anymore. No one is ready to be vulnerable by letting go of themselves. We have become too smart for ourselves and this is affecting our relationships today. We no longer want to be a fool for love.

0 comments:

Post a Comment

Popular Posts

Powered by Blogger.

If you need Advice/Tips

FOR MORE DATING AND MARRIAGE TIPS AND COUNSELING, CALL OR WHATSAPP, Counselor Josh +2348162629186