When I look back at all the relationships I have been
through that didn't work out and when I listen to
stories from people who come to me for counsel,
indeed relationships aren’t easy at all.
someone regretting and crying because their partner
doesn’t give them their time and attention. And again
you can also find another person having their
partner’s full time and attention but crying for their
bad behaviors like disrespect and being abusive.
Then you can also find someone quitting the
relationship because their partner cheated on them,
made a mistake or because of some
misunderstandings. But again when they move on
they find it worse with the new person they relate
with. It’s like escaping death at the ocean and it hits
you up at the shores.
everywhere. They break boundaries. They don't
matter whether someone is a celebrity, a politician, a
billionaire, a wizard in something, or a love doc,
everyone encounters them.
Meaning—if you are with someone who at least
makes you happy in any possible way they can or
who at least makes 50% of what you want in a
partner, please stick with them and try to deal with
their other imperfections.
If all you think of is dropping and picking a new
relationship all the time you face misunderstandings
or when something that you want isn’t happening at
the exact time take for instance marriage, then trust
me you might end up searching forever. You will
always be having relationships that will last for only
few months or one year and you jump out. But
remember too much of your time and energy will be
wasted.
you will never find them in this world. Everyone has
their bad side which can make a relationship go bad.
We just have to learn and understand each other, to
be patient to one another, and to appreciate what
God gives us.
Otherwise, there isn’t a perfect relationship in this
world. Even the people we see who seem to have it
all also face relationship problems. They face pain,
they get used and they cry for love. Sometimes we
just have to hold on to what we have. If we keep
looking for that special or angel like person we shall
never find them. Think about it!
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