REASONS WHY SOMEONE TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOUR CARING HEART AND PLAY WITH IT

Have you ever wondered why all the relationships you get into don’t work out? Well, wonder no more. The reasons why most of your relationships don’t work out is because you trust people so much and so fast, you love with all your heart and you leave all your senses behind, you repeat the same old mistakes you did in the past, you forgive so much, you love too much, you open up so much, you have a bad attitude and a lot of insecurities.

That’s why people take advantage of your kind and caring heart and they play with it like a toy. You need to work on yourself and learn from your past mistakes so that you don’t repeat them, you need to give a little love while leaving a room for disappointments anytime, you need to raise your standards a bit, you need to stop giving in your whole heart, and you need to stop trusting people so much and so fast. Take your time in knowing someone, their intentions towards you and their goals in the relationship. Let everything go slowly in stages. Don’t rush things. If someone really loves you their actions will tell with time. Nowadays relationships have completely lost meaning. They are all about sex, material gain, lust and a means of wasting each other’s time. People lie, they pretend a lot, they fake around, and they aren’t trustworthy and committed at all. All they do/want is to have fun with the other, manipulate them, and innocently revenge on them. And that has left many emotionally and mentally damaged, heartbroken, and with too much hate for love and a certain category of people. But that doesn’t mean true love no longer exist in this world. It does but very hard to find because people keep it underneath their damaged hearts simply because they learnt their lessons and now they are careful with their feelings and hearts.

They don’t wanna experience the same pain and repeat the same mistakes they did in the past. But if you are reading this post and you are lucky and blessed enough that you have that special person who truly proves it that they love you the way you are, please love them back and hold onto them. In case you get arguments or disagreement (of course they are inevitable) work them out together in a calm and mature way, and do whatever it takes to make the relationship last. Don’t find stupid reasons to end such a promising relationship all in the name of looking for the right one or the perfect person because the truth is you won’t find one. Be happy and proud of what you have. Don't let go relationship easily Unless you think you have done all your possible best to make it work but your partner fail to understand that you truly love him or her,never forget not all relationship will lead to marriage.