REASONS WHY YOUR PARTNER NOT LOVING YOU FOR REAL

In life we all have good and bad people and each category of people is there for a reason. The bad people hurt us, they don’t wish us well, they discourage us in fulfilling our dreams, but most important of all they make us stronger. The good people love and care about us, they support and encourage us in many things, they cry with us in times of pain and they motivate us.

Sometimes, some people choose to be single and leave their own life not because they are scared to get back into a relationship with anyone, not because they no longer have love, they are sick, they don’t know how to love, or they think all men and women are the same, but it’s because they had enough and now they are afraid. They are afraid of putting themselves in a vulnerable position again. They are afraid of opening up to someone new again. They are afraid of getting attached to someone again. They are afraid of being lied to and being betrayed again. They are afraid of being used again. They are afraid of finding out the truth and secrets again.

They are afraid of having high expectations just to be disappointed again. They are afraid of feeling jealousy towards someone again. They are afraid of their trust issues acting up again. They are afraid of their insecurities overwhelming them again. They are afraid of their mind assuming the worst again. They are afraid of their heart getting broken again. Worst of all, they’re afraid of losing someone again because everyone they care about, seems to eventually leave their life. So, don’t judge them but instead try to understand them. If you wanna have a serious relationship with them, be patient with them. Whenever we get into a relationship and it doesn’t work out the way we expected but instead it leaves us with pain and so damaged, we always judge and generalize all men and women to be the same, that they are bad, they don’t know what they want, they never get enough, they never appreciate, and lots of other bad things because of that one person who hurt us so badly. We always say such words because of the too much pain we tend to have at that particular time, because of our wasted time, and the false promises and lies made to us. But all that put aside, truth be told not all men and women are the same. There some good men and women out there who know what they want and with true love. IF YOU TRY YOUR BEST THINGS NOT WORKING ...QUIT