Don’t broadcast your
relationship on social media.
This is so common amongst
youngsters. In this case, you are showing the whole world what you are about. When we are in love, we want everyone to know
it. There is nothing wrong with that because the true feeling of love is indescribable. But at the
same time, not everyone is
happy to hear your success or what he bought for you. Some people smile at you on the outside and don’t really care about you deep inside them. The truth is, when this happens,
your life becomes their
entertainment.
Do not listen to gossip: This is mostly for those who have
popular boyfriends. You are on your own and someone calls you and says,; “Hey Lola, I saw your boyfriend with one girl I heard this, I heard that etc.” I am not insinuating you play deaf
to everything you hear because you might
just be the one to be laughed at, at the end of
the day. But do not listen to everything you hear. Close your ears to false rumours. This
leads me to the next point.
Trust your partner: True love is based on trust. When you trust your partner, you and
your partner can go a long way. This can
save your relationship from turning sour.
When you trust your partner, you can tell
the difference between a false advice and a
good one. Trust goes a long way.
Do not go to bed upset with each other:
When you have an argument with your
partner, try to make peace before bedtime.
If you think this is difficult, ask yourself this
question, ‘If he dies in his sleep, will I
forgive myself for the rest of my life?’ Don’t
make a small problem look so big when you
know it’s not. Never go to bed upset with
your partner.
Avoid third-parties: Whenever you have
issues with your partner, avoid seeking
advice from a third-party. This causes a lot
of damage in relationships. Do not go
running to his parents to report your
partner when things go wrong. Avoid
talking to friends and giving them too much
information about your relationships.
People are advised wrongly and causes a
major strain that cannot be fixed. Maybe
once in a while you can but don’t go
running to other people when you have a
problem with your partner. You are the one
in the relationship not them.
Honesty is the best policy: Always be honest to your partner. You do not want to
be in a relationship based on lies. No matter
how difficult the truth might be, make sure
you always say the truth. You might be
surprised at what you partner can forgive.
Learn to forgive: One
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of the primary ways
for your relationship to work is to learn to
forgive. Forgiveness goes a long way. Do not
hold on to things that would hurt you. No one is perfect. In relationships, there would
be days when you argue and quarrel. Not
every day is rosy but what makes the
difference is your willingness to let things go
and go back to being happy which takes me
to my next point.
Learn to apologize: When you offend your partner, you should learn to apologise to your partner. Don not let arrogance set
in. Say sorry when you are supposed to.
Do not repay evil for evil: We all know that two wrongs don’t make a right.
Repaying evil with evil is never a good
option for anyone let alone two people in a
relationship.
Be prayerful: After all these, we are still human beings and we are not perfect. There is no one who does not have flaws. Whether
you are a Muslim or a Christian or any other
religion you practice, pray to God to guide you and your partner in your relationship.
Advice to everyone: live everyday like it’s
your last especially with the ones you love.
Not everyone is lucky to fall in love twice in
a lifetime. So if you have a good person,
hold on to what you have and don’t let go.
Don’t broadcast your
relationship on social media.
This is so common amongst
youngsters. In this case, you are showing the whole world what you are about. When we are in love, we want everyone to know
it. There is nothing wrong with that because the true feeling of love is indescribable. But at the
same time, not everyone is
happy to hear your success or what he bought for you. Some people smile at you on the outside and don’t really care about you deep inside them. The truth is, when this happens,
your life becomes their
entertainment.
Do not listen to gossip: This is mostly for those who have
popular boyfriends. You are on your own and someone calls you and says,; “Hey Lola, I saw your boyfriend with one girl I heard this, I heard that etc.” I am not insinuating you play deaf
to everything you hear because you might
just be the one to be laughed at, at the end of
the day. But do not listen to everything you hear. Close your ears to false rumours. This
leads me to the next point.
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