You're not the "Holy Spirit", so stop trying to mold your partner into what you want them to be.Think about how you feel when someone tries to do the same thing to you.
2. Keeping Score Of Wrong/ Holding Grudges
It's normal for people to make mistakes and your partner is not an exception.Nobody wants to be in a relationship with someone who finds it hard to forget and forgive.
Last buh not the Least.
3. Always Critizing Family And Friends
These people were in their lives way before you came along.If you keep critizing the people close to them, he or she will feel you're trying to isolate them and may eventually end the relationship with you.
4. Too Big To Say The Word "I AM SORRY"
Don't be too proud to always say the word "I am Sorry".Sorry should be the number one word in your relationship.Some ladies or guys do feel big to tell their partner "I am Sorry".This particular word can help to save a relationship when you take it as a habit, and can help to destroy a relationship when you refuse to take it as a habit.Many relationship have been destroyed because of not using this word.
5. Never Accepting Blame
Some people don't ever take responsibility for anything, they just keep passing the blame even though they are at fault.You can't keep putting all the blame on your partner, learn to accept blame even if it's a little.
6. Pretense
Stop pretense because sooner or later the real you will be revealed.Stop acting like everything is alright all the time when they're not.Be open with your partner.Being a pretender is not good brother and sister.
7. Comparing
Nobody likes being compared.If your ex was that perfect you would still be with him or her.Stop the comparison else your partner maybe forced to end the relationship.
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