Sunday 19 June 2016

4 Reasons why men are getting married this days,ladies number 1,2&3 will shock you

Many people have different reasons for getting married and it is not always because of love. Women have been so labelled in the society it is difficult for them not to be tagged with a scandal. When people hear about a known ‘big girl’ getting married to some guy, they naturally spring up tales about the union and even create theories on what led to the marriage and all. Since women are always pinpointed every now and then, it would be interesting to look into the various reasons why men get married. We would also shock you by not adding love to the reasons we would be giving you. Without wasting much time, find below some of the things we were able to collate as to the reasons why men get married:
Hunger: The first reason why many men marry apart from love is hunger. Most Nigerian men get tired of living as bachelors when they calculate the amount of money they spend on buying food. This becomes worse for most of them when they do not live with their relatives and have to fend for themselves after a long day at work. There is the popular saying that the way to a man’s heart is through his Stomach. ALSO BECAUSE OF Empty house: Most men get married when they have attained a certain level of success. Having a big house and the luxury of a car could make some men get bored of their relationship status and get married. Most of them crave for their big houses to be filled with kids and for them to bustle with activities. LISTEN House chores FOLLOWED-Most men do not like doing house chores. It is enough for them to have to cook their own meal but cleaning up after is always an issue for most men. They get married because they need someone to clean the house and do their laundry. A maid would have been considered but it is really weird for a single unmarried man to be living in the house alone with a maid.
Horny-Man in bed-For some men, this is the ultimate reason why they marry. The agony of having to sleep every night with a se@ual urge is burdensome for most. Many men masturbate every night to reduce the intensity of the se@ual ache. Being married gives most men the liberty to sleep with their wives as much as they like. It is not the same feeling as sleeping with an ‘Olosho’.
Pressure from relatives: Most men are pushed into marriage the same way ladies who have attained a marriageable age are being pushed. The family pressure mounted on most Nigerian men makes them get married. In this part of the world, men marry very late as they believe they need to acquire wealth and save enough to care for the family they want to raise. Parents however, feel like they are running out of time and start to pressurize them into starting a family first and allowing things to take a natural course from there. When people start to think they are impotent or gay. Most men get married because they do not want to be tagged impotent. When a man remains unmarried and does not get any lady pregnant, people would start to think he is either gay or impotent. When those they are older than are getting married It gets to a stage in a man’s life where he needs nobody to tell him what to do. When all the boys in the hood that call him big brother start to marry when he is still single, then he becomes naturally bothered. At a particular stage in one’s life, certain things are expected; not getting married at this stage could cost most men their respect in the society.

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