1. Does He Treat You
Differently? When a guy is interested in you, he might
start behaving differently towards you, ESPECIALLY in a group. If he starts acting
“protective” towards you, like shifting himself closer to you in any seating
arrangement, or putting his arm around the
back of your chair, it’s a sign that he’s interested.
One interesting tactic that some guys take is
to start flirting with OTHER girls when they’re actually interested in you. A guy will
do this when he wants to see your reaction to
him flirting with other women – so that he
can tell whether YOU like HIM . It’s pretty easy to spot this tactic though –
watch him when he’s flirting with another girl. If he keeps trying to sneak peeks at you
to check your response, you can be reasonably confident that he’s doing it to get
a reaction out of you.
Try leaving to go to the bathroom or get
something from outside, then see if you can
find a sneaky observation point to watch
him. If he stops flirting with her when you
leave the room, that’s a dead giveaway that
he’s just trying to see what you’ll do.
2. Watch His Body Language.
You can tell a LOT about what someone is thinking and feeling just by watching their body language carefully. In fact, here’s something that most women
don’t realize – while women have more than
50 different body language signs that they’re
interested in a guy… guys only have about
10 ( 1 ). So what does that mean for you? It means
you can pretty easily tell whether he’s interested or not just by watching for a few key signs! All you have to do is know what
you’re looking for.
One of the most common signs is that he looks at you a lot. I mean, like a LOT . If you catch him raising his eyebrows when he
glances at you (usually lasts only a fraction of a second) then that’s a HUGE sign he’s
interested.
If he’s looking at your face a lot or making a
lot of eye contact, that’s a sign. Also, if he’s
leaning towards you or positioning himself
close to you, it’s a major sign.
Want to know if he’s subconsciously
interested? Watch his hands, feet, and legs. If
they’re pointed or angled towards you, it
tells you a lot about what he’s really
interested in ( 2 ).
When he first sees you, does he groom
himself? Does he straighten a tie, or fix his
shirt, or smooth down his hair? Pretty dead
on sign that he’s thinking about his
appearance while you’re near – because he
wants you to find him attractive.
3. Watch His Friends Closely!
If he’s interested in you, he might have told his friends. Or, they might have guessed it from him in the first place.
Whatever the reason – when you’re around him and his friends, watch his friends
closely. If they start making subtle jokes and making fun of him, and the thrust is that he’s interested in you – then he probably likes you!
Watch them when you’re with him and his friends. Do they smile when they see you? Do they smirk at him when you walk into the
room – like they know something you don’t?
One thing to avoid here – watch out if one of
his friends tells you he likes you when you haven’t gotten that vibe from him at all. His
friend might be looking out for himself – to your detriment!
4. Listen Carefully To Him
When He’s Talking To You.
So what do most guys do when they like a
girl? What do most of them talk about?
It’s pretty simple actually – they talk about
themselves. Lots of guys feel like they have to
prove themselves to a woman they’re
interested in, so they’ll start bragging (or
humblebragging) about themselves during
conversation.
One good way to see just how interested he is
in you is to watch his body language during
conversation. Try saying something softly.
Does he lean in to hear you? Great! Does he
stay closer to you after leaning in, or does he
retreat away from you?
Keeping an eye on how he positions himself
during conversation will help reveal how
interested he is in being with you.
Does He Look Nervous
Around You?
Does he nervously laugh whenever you’re
near? Does he get sweaty palms when you’re
together? How about – does he take deep
breaths? Does he fidget? Does he look away
really fast when you see that he’s watching
you?
All of those are strong signs that he’s
attracted to you.
Guys aren’t nervous around women they
aren’t interested in (most of the time), so if
he’s nervous around you, that’s a good thing.
It means he’s probably worried about
making a good impression on you to get you
attracted to him as well.
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