HOW LOVERS HAVE TURNED FACEBOOK INTO A BATTLE FIELD:

I wonder what some people take Facebook to be.
They think that Facebook is the only platform they’ll
let the whole world know that they’re in love with
someone. They never like to keep their drama off
Facebook.
TODAY their relationship status reads in a
relationship, married or engaged to so and so.
They’re in too much love praising, complimenting,
flattering and calling each other sweet names. In the
mid of the WEEK suspicions, jealous & other
insecurities set in. At the end of the MONTH they hate
one another, they call each other all sorts of ugly
names, and they update their status with the aim of
hurting each other’s feelings. In the MID of the YEAR
they are back in too much love. They now post
pictures when they are cuddling, snogging…
They mention how they’re at the beaches, clubs, cinema,
parks and hotels having fun with their partners. They
update their status telling the whole world how
they’re at their lover’s cribs watching a romantic
movie, having fun and listening to love ballads.
At the END of the YEAR they again see each other’s
ugly side. They start accusing each other over false
things. They change their relationship status to single
or complicated. They reach to the point of
unfriending and blocking each other. They start
posting that they are single & searching, single &
contented, I hate love, all men are dogs, and all
women are hoe. At this point the relationship is over
but they keep ask their friends to tell them how their
Exes are doing and what they talk about them. Few
months later they unblock each other and they again
send friend requests to the other. They now update
their statuses pleading and asking for forgiveness
hence repeating the same process.
I think that’s puppy love. Why not putting your dirty
drama off Facebook? Why taking Facebook to be the
high court of love? Why publicizing your love which
isn’t intended to last forever? Why exposing your
immaturity, weaknesses and secrets? Why making
each other a laughing matter? Why making love lose
meaning? Why losing your dignity? Why making
yourself a common figure on Facebook?
People better grow-up. Publicizing your love affairs
on Facebook isn’t the only way to show someone that
you love them that much. Cease exposing your
weaknesses & learn to solve your love issues with
your partners. Know that not everyone wishes your
relationship to flourish. Meet someone on Facebook,
fall in love with them and keep your love issues to
yourselves. Stop making Facebook a battle field of
your love.
Women, respect your age. Stop acting like young girls
& start acting like real mature ladies and men also
respect your age. Cease acting like young boys and
start acting like grown up Gentlemen.
If you’re a victim of this and the truth being put here
has hurt you. Sorry about it but better grown up.ONCE YOU ARE STILL DATING,
BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU ARE DOING IN SOCIAL MEDIAS. BE PROUD OF YOUR HUSBAND OR WIFE NOT POSTING AND BRAGGING ABOUT A BOY/GIRL FRIEND THAT MAY DUMP ANY TIME AND SHAME WILL COVER YOUR FACE.
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