LADIES READ THIS, HOW TO MAKE A MAN LOVE YOU MORE AND MORE

WHAT REAL MEN WANT FROM LADIES: While every man is different, there are certain things about a woman that will make any man stand up, take notice, and make him decide he wants to get to know you on a deeper level. If you want to win the right man’s heart, you need to know what it is that makes a man go from just feeling casual about dating you to wanting and needing you on a deeper level. I’m going to take you inside a man’s mind you so you understand what it takes to trigger this kind of connection. And I’m talking about a real man –one who is mature and grounded on a physical mental, emotional, and spiritual level. They are on a great path and open to growing on a deeply personal level.

I’m betting that’s exactly why you’re on this site: to find a quality kind of guy – a real man looking for a real relationship. So what does a mature, REAL man want in a woman? A Real Man Wants A Woman Who Is Playful. There’s something that drives men wild and invites them into a deeper level of “connection– play. Men love to be active and to play. They were raised to express themselves and connect with those around them through action. Unfortunately, too many women seem to forget this and want to talk their way into a man’s heart. But the fact is that men don’t “feel it” for you because of what you say. It’s not your words that make a man attracted to you, it’s the experiences you create with him. Watch or play sports together, be competitive in casual game like ping pong – even add a little teasing and sarcasm here and there – and you’ll really ram up the attraction and interest. A Real Man Wants A Woman Who Is Independent Lots of women mistakenly believe that men are looking for a “weaker” woman we will make them feel like they are smarter and more powerful. Nothing could be farther from the truth. Real men want a woman who inspire them because she has great things going on he own life. They want a woman who has her own purpose other than being in a relationship. A great guy isn’t intimidated by independence an success. What matters to a man is that a woman still has space in her life for a great relationship and is grounded and present when she’s with him. The best way to communicate this to a man is to stay busy in your own life an not suddenly make him your world. Don’t drop your own interests, responsibilities, and friends just to be with him. And then, when you are with him, really BE with him – have fun and give your attention to him and what you’re doing together. In everything we do, there are things to learn,and a good relationship isn’t an exemption. When in a good relationship, you have to value that relationship with your partner truly or you might lose it before you know it. They say ‘good things don’t last forever’; that I truly doubt, but what I’m sure of is that, if you don’t value a good thing then it definitely wouldn’t last forever. Below are just some of the things you should learn when in a good relationship, else you might lose it soon. > YOUR PARTNER’S TRUST IS IMPORTANT: Trust is important in a relationship; your partner need to trust you and you also need to trust your partner. If you have a partner that you can trust then you truly have to earn the trust of that partner as well. A lot of good relationship values can be built when there is trust, and the trust shouldn’t be jeopardized because once trust is broken, it’s hard to regain. DON’T HIDE YOUR FEELINGS: You can’t hide your feelings or bottle it up and expect things to sort out itself. You need to tell your partner how you feel about him/her. When you know you are in a good relationship, it’s important your feelings for your partner are made known because it can ignite a passion that would take the relationship to a greater height. Sometimes, all a partner needs to hear is how much you feel about them. Also, you shouldn’t hide your emotions; if you have something in your mind that’s eating you up, you have to tell your partner in a calm way rather than bottle it all up. FORGIVENESS IS IMPORTANT: We all make mistakes, and if forgiveness doesn’t exist in any relationship then there would be nothing like a successful relationship. When in a relationship that you value and one that you know is a good relationship then you just have to be ready to forgive. If you can’t learn how to forgive then you don’t also deserve forgiveness, and when forgiveness is lacking in a relationship, even the greatest of relationships would die slowly. ADMIT WHEN YOU ARE WRONG: This is also important; it’s extremely wrong to claim right when you’re wrong, this can kill a relationship. Some have this habit of always being right every time, even when they do a wrong; this habit can kill a relationship. A simple “I’m sorry, it was my fault” can save your relationship and make it stronger by a thousand times. NOT ALL QUARRELS ARE HEALTHY: Yes, not all relationship quarrels are healthy; some can lead to something even worse, some can bring hate and enmity, some aren’t just worth it at all. When you see an argument is going the wrong direction, it’s best you calm down at that point. Quarrels can hurt a relationship, even a good one; this is something that you should learn.

THE RELATIONSHIP ISN’T ONLY ABOUT YOU: You have to know this – selfishness is not an option in a relationship, a good relationship especially. Don’t make the relationship all about you – if it always has to be what you say, what you want, what you like and the rest of it then you are totally wrong. Your partner has feelings and emotions as well, and that’s important. Learn not to lose a good relationship just for your selfish interests. YOUR PARTNER DESERVES RESPECT: Respect is highly important in a relationship; a relationship no matter how good it might look won’t be successful unless respect exists. A man not hitting his lady is respect, a lady listening to her man and vice-versa is respect. Respect can be shown in so many ways, and it is highly needed for the relationship to be successful. YOUR PARTNER NEEDS COMPLIMENTS: If you are in a good relationship with a good partner, then what are you waiting for? You need to make your partner feel good by complimenting him/her; that thing that makes you feel special about your partner should be complimented. No matter what, everyone loves a compliment, be it man or woman; so don’t make the mistake of thinking your partner doesn’t need compliments. Compliment your partner in everything. BE GRATEFUL: Most people are unappreciative of their partner; they only do so when that partner has only done something highly remarkable. This is totally wrong; be grateful for everything your partner does to make you happy, no matter how little it is. A Real Man Wants A Woman Who Is Emotionally Mature If a man feels attracted to woman, eventually there’s going to be a situation that comes up where you and a man will see something differently and misunderstand each other. How will you respond to this and share your feelings? A woman who has the maturity to not blame or criticize a man for what she’s feeling, but to share her feelings in an honest and authentic way that helps a man better understand her will be attractive to a man. How a woman handles her emotions is one of the most important things men look for when deciding whether or not to get serious with a woman. If she lets he emotions get out of control, this is a big red flag to him. On the other hand, if she can present her feelings to him in a calm, non-dramatic manner, she will win his respect and make him feel like she’s the kind of woman who will be a real partner to him. He’ll see that she can handle things with a cool head rather than becoming a damsel in distress he has to rescue A Real Man Wants A Woman He’s Intensely Attracted To Fact: Men aren’t as scared of commitment and relationships as they are scared of being in a relationship with a woman where there is no passion and attraction. A common way women accidentally kill the attraction men might be feeling is by either trying too hard to get him to like you, or by acting like the relationship is too serious too soon. Relax and let things happen naturally. Make sure you do and say things that interject fun and humor into your relationship from the very start. There’s nothing more appealing to man than a great woman who knows how to relax and have fun. You can do this through playful teasing, flirting, humor, and being unpredictable (in a good way). For instance,instead of talking about what he does for a living when you meet him (yawn), ask him about what sports he plays and what drives him. Once you’re in a relationship, don’t be afraid to shake things up. If you normally go to brunch on Sundays, suggest something completely different like a bike ride and a picnic. Mixing things up keeps the relationship fun for both of you, and being a woman who is open to new experiences is very attractive to him.