31 Mistakes Women Make About Se.x In Marriage

This article takes a look at the mistakes that many women make about s*x in their marriage. They include but are not limited to the following:

1. UNDERSTAND WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS ABOUT S*X IN MARRIAGE
'Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.' 1 Corinthians 7:1-5. You must note the following points in this scripture:

* The bible made it clear that your body belongs to your husband.

* You must not deprive your husband of your body. The only time you can refrain from a s*xual relationship is when you are fasting. Before the fast you are to inform your husband, he is to be aware of your proposed fasting before you go ahead.

* You are to come together again after your fasting so that you will not give advantage to the flesh over your marriage. Please note that 70 days of fasting is not 70 days without s*x except if it is a "marathon" fasting. Fasting is usually From 12 midnight to 6pm, so when you break your fast between the hour of 6:01 to 11:59 satisfy your husband, don't ever engage in long fasting just because you want to avoid s*x with your husband, you may end up hurting yourself so deeply.

2. DON'T FAIL TO SATISFY YOUR HUSBAND
One of the roles of a woman in marriage is to satisfy her husband s*xually. You need to be bold and wise enough to ask your husband whether he is satisfied. Ask him what you can do to satisfy him, then go ahead to do them.

'Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.' Prov. 5:19.

3. A S*XUALLY UNFULFILED MAN IS PRONE TO DANGER.
It is easier to pull down a s*xually unfulfilled man. A man who is s*xually fulfilled by his darling wife will be more difficult to pull down. A man that is not getting the best of s*x at home is a danger going somewhere to happen. Protect your husband from falling. Meet his needs at home and make it impossible for him to fall into error.

4. DON'T GO FOR A DARK COLOUR IN YOUR MARRIAGE.
“Behold, thou art fair, my beloved, yea, pleasant: also our bed is green. The beams of our house are cedar, and our rafters of fir”. Song of Solomon 1:16, 17.

Make s*x lively by making your bed GREEN. Ensure your bed is always green. Your bed must not be RED. A red bed is a s*xless marriage. A YELLOW bed is a marriage where the husband have to struggle, plead, and even fight before having s*x with his wife. It is a marriage where the wife had made calendar for s*x at home.

Finally, your bed must not be BROWN. This is a marriage that is full of s*xual immorality. You must never allow any other man to sleep with you. It is an unrighteous act. It is unholy and unacceptable to God to allow any other man apart from your darling husband to sleep with you.

5. NEVER DARE YOUR HUSBAND TO GO OUT TO LOOK FOR S*X
No matter what happens, never dare your husband to look for s*x elsewhere. Somebody else may cook for him, somebody else may take care of his clothes but you are the only one that is authorized by God to sleep with him. Don't ever allow household chores to sap you of your energy to do what only you can do for him.


6. NEVER COMMIT YOUR HUSBAND INTO THE HANDS OF YOUR HOUSE GIRL
If you allow your maid to be the one that cook your husband meal, wash his cloth, serve his food and generally care for him, you will be opening your husband to temptations in his own house. It may be very hard for him to escape. Your maid should be y