I’ve always been the girl that believes that it’s the
small things in a relationship that keeps the love
alive. You know, like those cute texts, random
touches, holdings hands, staying up late at night in
bed just talking, just those random times that are not
expected to happen but when they do that’s when
you say to yourself..
that’s exactly why i love him. Do
you ever sit and think about how you fell in love in
the first place and then sit and take a look at your
relationship now and think why the hell am I still
here? There’s no more random hugs or nice
gestures. Seems like the only thing you may have in
common is maybe music or just the routine you have
adapted yourself to. So where did all that love go?
Why am I not getting random kisses anymore? Where
did all the romantic stuff go?
There are thousands of ways to keep the love alive! If
you have run out of ideas, I’m about to give you just a
few of those romantic ideas to keep that love from
fading!!
Here we go!!
1. FLIRT! When was the last time you flirted with your
partner? Try pinching his/her butt in public, or try
play fighting at home. Think back of when you started
dating and flirt just like you first met. That little bit of
taunting will go a long way. You’ll give your partner
that little rush again and you just never know what that will lead to.. *hint *hint!
2. SEDUCE! Next time you are feeling a little sassy
throw on some music, maybe some lingerie, feed
your partner some strawberries, then try some new
sexy techniques. That will be be a sure way to add a
little spark into your relationship. Especially when
they least expect it! Wait till bedtime and just walk in
with some se xy outfit on. Or for gentleman, how
bought buying her some lingerie and laying it on the
bed right before she walks into her room.
3. PRETEND YOU ARE SINGLE. That absolutely
should not be taken in a serious sense. Never ever
ever cheat on your partner. What I mean by pretend
you are single is, pretend you are single with your
mate. When you are in a serious relationship you
think long term. So there is security and commitment
and lets be honest sometimes you think things will be
the same all the time. S*x at certain times. Kisses
when available, stuff like that. But instead if you think
like you are single you act on things right as you think
of them. Remember what you would do when you
had that crush and you thought of them? You’d send
out that I miss you text or if you were brave you’d
send that sassy picture.. ( lets be honest here, we’ve
all had that wild side). If you missed them you’d give
them a call. Feel like making love.. well then you were
making love. Do that with your partner. Act on it right
away. Send that text. Send that picture. Make that
call. Have that random spontaneous s*x! And do it as
you think of it.
4. TAKE 5. Take five minutes of your day to devote on
your partner. Think of all the little things you forgot
to do that may have caused an entire day of arguing.
Maybe you forgot to call and say that you would be
running late at work and won’t be home on time. Or
maybe you didn’t say goodbye when you left. Take
five minutes of your day to just give your special
someone a call. If you are home take five to just sit
next to your partner and just do a mini chat. Or take
that five minutes to just give your partner a nice hug
and say I love you. You’ll be surprised to see how far
that five minutes a day takes you.
5. HAVE BAGS PACKED. Grab a duffle bag and throw
some clothes for each of you in it. When things feel
hectic and you just need that moment to just
breathe.. grab your bags and go. Even if things are
not stressful have this bag packed. Having a random
night away is not only super sweet and romantic but
also very stress relieving. This doesn’t have to be an
expensive escapade. You can grab your tent and go
to the nearest campground. Or stay at a really cheap
motel. As long as you are together that is what
matters! Have this bag packed at all times. Its the “get
up and go” bag. In a flash everything is already ready
to go!
I hope you enjoyed these few ideas! Remember there
are tons and tons of ways to keep the love alive! It’s
up to you to think of fun and creative ways to keep
that flame burning! We all have it in us to keep your
love one interested and feeling loved always.
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I’ve always been the girl that believes that it’s the
small things in a relationship that keeps the love
alive. You know, like those cute texts, random
touches, holdings hands, staying up late at night in
bed just talking, just those random times that are not
expected to happen but when they do that’s when
you say to yourself..
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