Well, you may have made a mistake or upset her so much that she would never consider giving you another chance.
It may be bugging to know what may have gone down along the line, even though you didn't see anything wrong on your first date.
Research says it is almost always something the man says that makes the woman unenthusiastic about seeing him for another date.
Julie Spira of Your Tango lists 10 things that are major turn offs for women and men should never say them especially on a first date
1.Are those really your breasts?: Sure we know that men are physical and that they undress women with their eyes when they first meet. That’s fine. Regardless of whether she’s wearing a terrific push-up bra or went under the knife, avoid any comments about a woman’s breasts. Even if you believe it’s innocent, women do not.
2.I’ve been on this site too long: We know that online dating is a numbers game, but if you haven’t met anyone online in years that led to a significant relationship, either you’re a serial dater or are way too picky. Either way, a woman will not think you are relationship material.
4.I don’t believe in marriage.: Although a woman isn’t ordering her bridal gown on a first date, more often than not, she hopes the relationship will go the distance if there’s a spark. If you tell her you have commitment problems, she won’t want to be the one to change you.
5.I’ll call you: Don’t say you’re going to call to be polite. Women don’t buy the line of “I’ll call you.” It’s simple, but true when they say that actions do speak louder than words. If you’re truly interested, pull out your iPhone and put another date on the calendar at the end of your first date. It will give you both something to look forward to and will show that you are a man of your word.
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