1. Give him romantic kisses instead of pecks. Long hello kisses tell him you’re glad to see him, long good-bye kisses tell him you can’t wait until he returns, long thank-you kisses tell him you really appreciate what he did for you, and “hey you, kiss me” kisses tell him you want him. Benefit to you: He’ll feel more connected to you and look forward to being with you. Why it works: Physical connection is the only way most men know how to be intimate is what makes your relationship special.
2. Flirt with him. Be playful, tease him, talk se xy once in a while, gaze into his eyes with a “come here, big boy” twinkle, offer se xy kisses and physical touches. Why do we think we can quit doing the things we did when we were first falling in love and expect our relationship to stay strong? The relationships that endure are those where the couple stays “in love”. That means flirting, being playful, being sexy and sensual, and remembering why we fell in love in the first place. Benefit to you: You’ll both feel younger, friskier, and more in love. Why it works: Flirting is a kind of play and playfulness helps cement your bond. And adding se xual energy to the mix keeps the se xual side of your relationship alive and vibrant. Remember this, when the se xual side of your relationship dies, you become roommates at best
4. Be a Giver, Not a Taker. I know there are some men out there that are saying to yourselves, "She's going to walk all over me if I do these kinds of things for her." Just let me say that the kind of men who think this way are usually takers and not givers. But I'm telling you right now, if you have a good woman by your side and want to keep her, you're going to have to learn to give. Just as I said earlier, this article is based on two principles, one of which is "there is more happiness in giving than in receiving." If you love someone, truly love them, you will do whatever you can to keep them by your side and loving you back. Granted, there are some women who will not love you and appreciate you no matter what you do for them. But you are not with that woman, or you wouldn't be reading this article to learn about some simple little things to keep your woman in love with you. You already have a good woman by your side, and you want to keep her. Trust me, a good woman will not only think you are the greatest thing since sliced bread when you become a giver, and she will respond to your love one hundredfold! That's why there is more happiness in giving! You're going to get back that much, and more. Try it and you will be amazed.
6. Make Her Laugh Life just gets too serious sometimes. Lighten it up. Make her laugh. You know her better than anyone, and I'm sure there are some past experiences or situations that you can remember that you laughed about. Remind her of it, if you can't think of anything new. I remember years ago, my husband had been out of work for a while. He was filling out yet another employment application for a place he really wanted to work. He was depressed because he hadn't found a job yet. Feeling that I had to lift his spirits, when he asked me "What should I put for salary?" I said, "Put YES!" We both started laughing so hard that it turned an otherwise depressing mood into a light-hearted one.
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