HOW TO HANDLE BREAK UP

Not all the ladies who tell their boyfriends/ husbands “It’s over between me & you” always mean it… Depending on my past experience in relationships, I have come to realize that 80% of the ladies out there who quickly tell their boyfriends or hubbies that IT’S OVER BETWEEN ME & YOU when they have got an argument, they never really mean it. Many say it out of the much anger they have. When their boyfriends hurt them, they fail to control their anger and they end up uttering out such hurting words. Some girls who are strong enough can say it out face to face with their boyfriends and others who are weak hearted just text a brief message.

This has ever happened to me twice in my life. It's ever shocking and breaking because it happens in unexpected time. But I discovered to ways of getting over it.
1) Bro when your girlfriend tells you that it’s over between me and you; Don’t panic, Just bear it in your minds that she’s peeved with what you did to her, what she had about you… So due to the much anger she holds, she ends up uttering out such words, but you don’t have to quickly give up or get mute on her. All what she needs at this time is you to chase her, to show her that you still love her, you are sorry for what you did to her, you are ready to change and you still want to move on with her. This is the time she really needs your comfort and attention very much. I did this in the past and it stabilized the relationship I had with one girl.
2)When that sweetie of yours sends you that heartbreaking message telling you that she’s done with you, don’t rush to react because you may end doing a weird thing that you may regret for your entire life. I know at this jiffy you may feel a wave of panic inside you but relax. Then try to contact her through a phone call. At this moment their higher chances that she might not pick up no matter how many times you dial her number. If she happens to pick up, try to explain to her, apologize if necessary and listen to what she tells you. If she puts all the blame on you, be cool and carry it because at this

time your target is to restore the situation and remember you can’t restore the situation if your goal is all about winning the argument. Don’t make her yap on phone for so long and don’t force her to quickly forgive you. Give her time to rest and even to make up her mind. When you call and you find her number off still try it the next days. In the next days when you holla at her and you find it on but she doesn’t pick up, don’t react by abusing or insulting her. Just send her a simple text either explaining to her everything, apologizing or telling her how much you still love her. If she doesn’t reply you, be cool and let that day or night go but make sure you try to contact her the next days If still she doesn’t respond then get mute on her for some good days and give her time to ponder about everything and to make up her mind. If she really loved you she’ll contact you after getting over that anger just like the way she did to me. But if she doesn’t then just know she meant what she said that “It’s over between you and her”. After some time contact her again, If God is on your side she’ll bravely pick up and she’ll still stick on her words that she got done with you. If she’s open enough she’ll tell you to move on with your life. I know when you hear this bro you may get low, you may do all your damnedest to get her back but if she meant what she said still you won’t change her mind and you won’t make her love you back. At this time you just have to accept the reality that she’s gone. She’s no longer yours. You just have to bear it in your minds that the end of her loving you is not the end of your life. You just have to understand it that SOMETIMES LOVE LEAVES FOR A REASON, BUT NEVER LEAVES WITHOUT A LESSON

And bear it in your minds that God took her away from you because he wanted to save you from something and he saw that you deserve someone better than her. Then get on your knees and thank God for that. But don’t rush to fall in love again, take your time to heal your broken heart. I know it takes a while to find a right person to settle down with but the right person is always worth the wait. Do not ever rush to fall in love bro, I repeat it one more time, DO NOT EVER RUSH TO FALL IN LOVE bro, take it slow as you are praying to God to help you meet that other new girl someday who will love you the way you’re, who won’t dump you over minor reasons and Rumours, who will be with fear of losing you and hurting you in any way and who will never give you any reason to doubt her love! This is my own write up based on my experience. You may disagree with me but remember I have ever done this and I was successful in it. I dedicate this article to all the MEN out there and LADIES, the vice versa of this applies to you.