IF YOU CAN APPLY THIS FACTS,YOUR RELATIONSHIP WILL NEVER BORING

Know what you like. As you go on a pleasure hunt, remind yourself that IT’S OKAY to be self-centered enough to know what you like. When you share that information with your partner, this will deepen your relationship and increase satisfaction. When you listen to and try out what your partner really likes, that ramps up passion even more!

Make pleasure a priority. So many of us are perpetually busy and exhausted. When we have downtime, the temptation is to “veg out” online or by watching tv. Re-discover what real pleasure is for you and then make it a priority. It only takes a few moments to focus your attention on how a particular activity feels to you and to find out what feels good (and what feels REALLY good)!

Remove obstacles that block passion. To bring in more of anything that you DO want, you’ve got to clear the way. It is usually the case that a lack of relationship intimacy and passion indicates the presence of an obstacle. This obstacle could be pent-up resentment, old emotional wounds that need to be healed, or baggage from past painful relationships. To find your obstacles to passion, look first to your own thoughts and actions. YOU have the power to change YOU! Recognize what is active within you that is standing in the way of relationship satisfaction. Remember, the obstacles you find may not directly relate to sex, but if they cause you to hold back or close down to your partner, they’re standing in the way. Just keep it fresh.