5 THINGS THAT CAUSES HEARTBREAK TO GIRLS AND HUSBAND SCARCITY

HUSBAND SCARCITY!

This may not be the best time for me to write on this because
of misinterpretations, but I can
no longer resist the push.
"Husband Scarcity" has become
one of the challenges faced by
many young girls today. If you
go to prayer houses, majority of
the prayers are for life partner.
And this calls for concern.
Casting our minds back to the
time of our mothers and
grandmothers, was there really
much of a "HUSBAND
SCARCITY" problem? Or, maybe
there were more men than
women then, or there was an
adequate corresponding
numbers of both genders. I
don't think so. Maybe then, the
women had values and were
prepared to build a home and
not park into an already built
home. Then, once a young man
comes of age and can at least
feed himself and his wife, he
goes out in search of a wife and
the woman really appreciates
him and helps him to build a
future.
What am I really trying to say?
We created what we now see as
"HUSBAND SCARCITY" for ourselves.

\ Today, the reverse is the case. Ask an average pretty girl to define her dream
husband; you get things like "he
has to be tall,handsome, fair,
and rich, own a house atleast,
and be presentable" and then
she adds "God fearing" in order
not to sound so worldly. Then,
check the number of girls
around you and the number of
men that meet that standard,
and you will see the problem.
You hear girls say, "I cannot
suffer in my father's house and
then go and start suffering with
a man."What a wonderful
dream! What if from the
beginning, you have everything
you want and there is no
suffering, and later in
the marriage, the table turns
around, then comes suffering?
Will you run away? No one
prays for suffering, but it is
good to start small and end big,
than start big and end small.
God bless you!