LADIES This is 10 primary things men want from women in be*d READ

Rare is the man who demands acrobatic porno stunts and a closet filled with ball gags and leather whips. Sure, those men exist, and if that’s your cup of kink, go for it. But the truth is, most guys are a little more predictable in their bedroom proclivities. We just want a s3x life that’s a little spicy, a little sweet, and still occasionally surprising. Easy enough, right? Sure it is! To make the bedroom a s3xual sanctuary. `

As a man I have analyzed some of the things that dudes desire most in bed. To See You Take Initiative. We’re happy to make the first move, and if you don’t, we will. But it’s so much more rewarding when we know how eager you are. Because no matter how much you seem to enjoy the heat, if you never light the match, we have to wonder if you don’t secretly prefer the cold. S3xy Lingerie. We know you mostly wear it to turn us on, and we really, really appreciate it—even if we seem to barely notice as we rip it off and toss it on the floor.
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Foreplay. Don’t be fooled by guys you see in movies who are always horny and ready to screw like RIGHT NOW. Truth is, we love the slow build as much as we love the crescendo. And good s3x provides both. Spontaneity. It’s impossible for a couple not to fall into some kind of rut, even if it’s a shallow one. So don’t ever be afraid to change things up. `

Pre-work s3x, s3x without penetration, and s3x on the living room coffee table all do the trick. Just be sure to wipe it down before you put the magazines back. Dirty Talk. Or at the very least, some encouraging moans to let us know when we’re on the right track. To Hear His Name. Nothing keeps us in the moment like the sound of our own name. Use that to your advantage. Safety. Unless we’re in a long-term relationship, you’re taking the Pill, and we’ve both been tested for STDs, then condoms are still part of the equation. Odds are, we have one with us.
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But what if we run out? Or we forget it? If you can whip out a rubber like s3xual Houdini, that’s hot. Even better is if you occasionally pull it out before we have a chance to. It shows us that you’re committed to our s3x life, and that you’re willing to take joint responsibility for our safety. `

A Game-for-Anything Attitude. If we want to play out a fantasy or try a new position, we hope you’ll at least be open to trying. And we promise —we’ll do the same for you. A Sense of Humor. When things go wrong, it can either be hilarious, or devastating. Our ability to laugh together makes the difference. To Make You Orgasm. It’s not all about us, and we know it. So, please—tell us what you want. We aim to please.