There is no harm in connecting with people on the internet but especially looking for someone to date is not a very cool idea, as common as it has become. It is, indeed, convenient and saves a lot of trouble of actually going out and socializing but it is not the best idea, certainly not because everyone is doing it.
Let’s face it; more than half of the profiles on dating sites or other socializing sites are either fake ones or handled by liars who are ready to make up all sorts of lies to look good to the person they are trying to impress.
Half of them are either just scam willing to waste your time and the other half do not really put any thought into the future meetings, they only seek to impress. Women and men, both, tell lies but about different things that turn out to be trust-breaking in the future.
Low salary or more weight are not what disappoint people, it is the lying that turns them off. So potential liars are the first reason why online-dating can be a terrible experience
Imagine you liked a guy who lives in Canada while you live in USA; not even in a different state but in Canada. You go bonkers over not being able to meet him and it kills you because he seems like the perfect guy.
You agree to take on a long-distance relationship but for how long? There have to be some meetings, otherwise it is almost impossible to keep track of each other’s lives. What if they have another online friend just like you?
What if they are not able to reach their phones all the time? Just imagine the pain of knowing someone so good exists but in a land far away.
This is the worst possible thing about online dating. The fear of not being good enough for the person with interesting hobbies makes us fake ourselves. We try to be someone we are not and not only does that make us insecure but can be a problem when our real self comes out.
We fail to see that being the perfect person for a date is not the goal; being yourself is what you need to do and see if the other person likes it.
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