Saturday 12 November 2016

I Must Read:4 Reasons Why Real Men Never Cheats In Their Relationship

This is the same for men and women, both. But here we would discuss men and men only. Because I was to change the norm a bit, of how people usually think men are the ONLY cheaters, this is coming from a guy who was cheated on four times in his life.
Regardless of whatever the reason may be, cheating on your partner is inexcusable. It is despicable and utterly disgusting. Cheating has become extremely common nowadays even then we see true men staying loyal to their partners for their whole lives, this truly makes them real men. Here is why!
1. REAL MEN KNOW WHEN TO STOP THEMSELVES
The boy outgrows the impulsive phase and realises the importance of switching off the too-young-to-care mode. A real man matures from that and realises the importance of true love, sticking together and making things work. When an opportunity comes his way, a mature man will always think of his commitments that will stop him. The lame excuse that men and women both make – ‘ it was the heat of the moment’, nothing happens like that. Everything is possible, if someone truly cares about their partner they will control every urge and every signal of impulsiveness.
2. THEY KNOW WHEN TO CALL IT QUITS
Instead of dragging things along and cheating on his girlfriend or wife, a real man has the guts to call things quits when he knows a relationship is no longer working for him. He will handle the situation as a responsible adult.
3. FOLLOWS HIS HEART, NOT EVERYONE ELSE
Sleeping around is becoming so common that it has become a band wagon. Everyone is doing it to fit in to that group. But a real man would care less about others and more about their relationships. He will not be afraid to stand out or stand alone for that matter. He will not cheat for the sake of it neither will he cheat for anything else.
4. A GOOD MAN HAS A CONSCIENCE
A simple reason, yes – but a strong one nonetheless. The constant guilt associated with cheating on a woman you love and then having to pretend everything is great when you are around her; I would imagine, is impossibly difficult. Also, a real man has his morals clear, for them there is no grey area either. For them, things are very clear and they have chosen to live by a the simple theory of ”right and wrong’, things are either right or wrong. There is no midway.
Cheating is disrespectful and as I have said before – utterly disgusting. It is casting someone else’s feelings aside because of something temporary you want. But not just something you want; something you want at the expense of your girlfriend/wife, and your relationship. Cheating is lying to someone, it is breaking their trust, and those are not the things you do to someone you respect and love.

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