4 Things you need to do someone that taking advantage of you or taking your love for granted

How do I know whether I am being taken for granted or being taken advantage of? If you are being taken for granted, the other person will not notice or appreciate all that you do. He or she may even expect you to do certain things without realizing that you don't have to do them at all. If you are being taken advantage of, the other person will be using you for their own benefits, but give nothing in return. For example, the person may speak to you only when they need you to do something for them, and ignore you otherwise.

Once is dating ,Next time you see them face to face, let them know what's up. Don't be blunt and try not to come off as rude or aggressive, but instead be calm, sincere and polite. Let him/her know how you feel. Keep in mind that this is for the best, don't blame yourself for anything. You deserve better than someone who won't communicate. If you can't get in touch with the person, send a note or email explaining that due to their unwillingness to stay in contact and to talk to you, you've been forced to notify them in this manner that you consider the relationship to be ended. Leave it at that and get on with your life.

Define what makes you happy and start focusing more on that. Get excited and passionate about your own life. When you feel disgruntled because you feel like you are not getting what you want, whether it’s being/feeling ignored, taken for granted, or not appreciated, it’s time to turn things around. One of the best ways I know to do this is to define what makes you happy and start focusing more on that. Perhaps you are neglecting yourself in important ways. Perhaps you are giving up on your own needs, wishes and dreams for your life. It may sound selfish to some, but really caring enough about ourselves sends a strong message to our partner. We then put fuel back in the tank so to speak and from there we are in a better place to articulate our needs and to make changes in a relationship. The best way to avoid being taken for granted is to be clear about the part we play in the relationship dynamic and to be willing to step back and change our own steps in the dance.

Make yourself less available. They can only do that when you allow them to. It's a cooperation between the two of you - they want, you provide. Stop providing. Friendships often come together for a variety of reasons but they are usually providing some kind of advantage for one or the other. Your relationship may be the kind of relationship that is one-sided, where one gets the advantage and the other gets taken for granted. It is likely that this is why the relationship works, and if a change occurs in that dynamic, it may mean an end to the friendship. You are now the one being taken advantage of, but I venture to guess that it felt like you were needed in the beginning so you liked the relationship but it has changed. So if you do change that dynamic, they won't be getting what they want from you and it is your choice how you handle. It is impacting you to the point of asking for advice. It may be doubtful for them to change - once a dynamic is established, altering it a person may withdraw, in simpler terms, if you stop feeding the animal they will look for food elsewhere. The change doesn't often work in keeping the friendship, though she may be quite unaware of what's happening, so talking about it may help. But it's become a habit or ritual if you will, a behavior that's developed, and that may be hard to change. It's up to you to stop letting this happen, and the best way is to back off a bit, don't be so agreeable.