4 Ways you can know your lover don't truly love you,make sure you Read this 4 point

1. There is innate disinterest when it comes to the meager, silly details about your life. There is a lack of desire to make things better between you two. Petty fights are picked without concern for what they’ll do to your relationship as a whole. They buy you things that you don’t like but they do. They try to change you into someone they want you to be. They talk about the future more than they do the present. They don’t call you regularly, or keep in touch at all. Their parents don’t know about you. They actually say they aren’t so sure. Your interests may overlap, but your future goals clearly don’t.

2. And there seems to be no interest in compromising on those future goals. You hear them say “well, I still want to see what’s out there” a lot. And then they act on that. They very clearly don’t trust you. You can’t talk to them about things that are important to you. You can’t talk to them about issues in the relationship without it turning into a huge fight. You don’t put a lot of effort into making your lives coincide. They don’t remember the little details (your birthday, favorite color, etc.) They insult you in public, even if it seems like a joke. Or they put you down, ever.

3. They fight dirty. They imply that you need to lose weight or change your appearance somehow. S*x is a one-way street, if you know what I mean. They aren’t willing to reciprocate what you do for them. They keep your relationship a secret. They want to go out without you more than they want to be with you. They are easily annoyed by you. They don’t care to apologize when they were in the wrong. Because they think you were always the one in the wrong. If you ask them why they love you, they give you reasons that are anything other than “I just do.”

4. They don’t give you little signs of physical affection now and again. They act like your pal more than your lover (not always a bad thing as long as the latter isn’t obsolete). Conversations take work. You can see in their eyes that they aren’t innately crazy about you. They aren’t faithful. They are more interested in the possibilities than the realities. They are disrespectful toward your family or friends. They make fun of things that are very important to you. They make fun of you, and not in the playful flirtatious way. They don’t commit.